Panic at the Disco

Valentines Day at 5:30 pm Esplin calls me and says your tumor markers have gone back up.

He tells me that the radio oncologist doesn't think we should do radiation but rather mastectomy. And he wants me to start the Red Devil.  That's the hardest chemo.

He panicked and so did I.

He let me take the next week off of chemo and do my scans on Friday.  So last Friday, Feb 21st I had both CT and bone scans.  I was super scared of what they would find. Scanxiety is real folks!

My appointment was on Tuesday.  My scans came back stable.  No progression.  No shrinkage either, but no progression. Even those dumb lymph nodes didn't grow. 

As a stage 4 patient, that is a victory.  I need to get more excited about those little victories.

He told me he panicked a bit and that's why he doesn't like to go by tumor markers alone.

So for now I'm continuing with 3 weeks of Taxol and then one week off.

I am the kind of person that needs a light at the end. A goal to reach.  I have to gear myself back up to continuing with chemo.  It's a serious mental effort on my part to be able to keep going.
I'm so tired of being tired and sick. I'm tired of being a burden to others.  My local church congregation has been feeding my family for 3 months and I feel like a burden.

I'm trying to teach myself how to be a sick person. To live with a terminal (we'll call it chronic) illness and still live.  I want to just do whatever I need to do even if I feel sick.

During the week off, Kevin and I talked about how I want to push for a mastectomy.  It just seems in my head that the breast is the one that's causing most of the alarms. As much as I don't want one, I just want it gone.  I told Dr. Esplin this, and he called my surgeon...remember Dr. Tittensor?  Anyway, they and the radio oncologist all feel the same.  Until I can get better control of my bones and liver a mastectomy would do more harm than good.  For one reason, the data shows it doesn't prolong life. Secondly, for the 4-6 weeks during preparation and recovery, I can't take any of my chemo meds and my bones and liver and lymph nodes can take off and get out of control.  So until we have better control over them and if my breast is still causing issues, then we'll revisit the mastectomy.

I'm glad that I'm at least stable. Now let's see shrinkage and my ultimate goal of No Evidence of Disease!