Onto treatment number 2

There's so much that has happened in the past month that there's no way I could possibly write it all down.
The beginning of August, Kevin and I went on an anniversary trip to the Dominican Republic. We have always planned on doing a 20th anniversary trip, but with this being our 15th and not knowing what will be in 5 years, we are trying to have an attitude of "just do it now."  The DR was the cheapest place for a last minute trip.
It was so nice to be with just Kevin for 6 days and we did a lot of resting and a little recreating.
Our trip was dampened by the death of our cute pup, Misty. She was hit by a car on our actual anniversary and died soon after. This made it hard to be away from home and we ended up calling more often than we would have. That made it kind of hard for me to really let go and relax, but it was still a great trip and time together.
I started to feel a little picked on with all that has happened this year. My family needs a break so badly and even when we purposely take one, we're not really given a break.  I don't want to say that we can't handle anymore, because I'm scared of what else may happen to prove me wrong. With my mom's death, my cancer, Misty's death and many other things, this year has been awful and my little family just needs to be able to rest.

Two weeks ago, I had an appointment. Dr Esplin told me that he would wait to get my blood work back to see what my tumor markers were. If they were steady or even just a bit higher, we would stay the course, but if they were higher, we would have to change.

Well, they were higher.....sky higher. This means there's progression of my tumors and my treatments have failed.

My new treatment plan is a new chemo called Afinitor (everlimus) which is a pill I take everyday without breaks.
Once a month I get shots called Faslodex (2 shots in the tush) which is a kind of chemo that is basically an estrogen blocker.
I also get Zoladex shots once a month which puts me and keeps me in menopause.
Every 3 months I get Zometa, which is a bone strengthener.

I was handling Ibrance so well, and I've been on Afinitor for one week and it's been awful.
I have swirly head, extreme fatigue, heartburn, constipation and diarrhea.  I get hungry, but no much tastes good. Hot flashes....oh the hot flashes. So far I haven't had the mouth ulcers that come with it. It can also cause weight gain or weight loss. I told Dr. Esplin that I would like to lose weight and he said he didn't want me to lose it with this cause it can go too far. To be honest, I figure I'll face that if and when it happens.  I've got the one shots trying to make me gain weight so maybe they'll balance each other out?

It's been rough emotionally and I've gone through all the familiar fears of hopelessness that nothing is going to work for me.  Scared that if something does work for me the side effects are going to make me so miserable. I'm scared for my kids, Kevin and myself.  I received another priesthood blessing, and that was comforting. I wish I could do better at keeping that peace with me.

Infusions

So as I posted last time, I went in on Wednesday and got my first of many Zometa infusions. It's a bone strengthener and they give it to you via i.v.  When I asked Dr. Esplin about the side effects, he said none with a caveat that some people complain about bone aches for a few days.
Wednesday night I had a hard time sleeping because both my thigh's were aching. Nothing really new, and I woke up feeling okay. By 10:00 I was in some serious trouble. I hurt all over my body, I had chills, low grade fever, flu like symptoms, my head literally stung as well as every inch of me just hurt.  I managed to make it to Kinli's 1st grade program and then I was down for the count.
I slept on and off with the help of Tylenol, but it only helped slightly.  I felt so so terrible. The next morning I still felt crappy and a call to the Dr. and a google search confirmed that many people feel this way with their first infusion and it supposedly gets a bit better each time.  I stayed in bed until Maili's voice recital and then I hopped right back in. I do feel much better today, but still feel sore. My left calf and ankle started hurting even a bit before the infusion and I have had issues with it on and off.  Sometimes I feel like I'm faking the pain because it hurts one minute and I'm limping and the next I'm fine. I feel like a kid trying to get attention.
They didn't scan past my mid thigh, so I don't know about cancer down there, but I'm pretty sure it's there.  I also forgot to tell Dr. Esplin about the pain in my chest wall. It hurts when I breath deeply, but is better when I have the support of a bra. I'm sure there's cancer on the chest wall under where this whole thing started.

The whole thing has made me super weepy, emotional and depressed the past few days. I HATE Cancer and I HATE that is part of my life forever. I am still trying to get to acceptance, but it's a hard pill to swallow (pun intended)

I feel like cancer has taken so much from me and I'm angry. You know when you wake up and remember your bad dream?  Everyday I wake up and remember I have cancer and it stings every time.

I hate when I don't feel good because I think it stresses and worries my kids.  I try as hard as I can to pretend, but when you can't make it up the stairs with a basket of laundry, it's hard to hide.

I wonder if I'm ever going to feel good again? Am I ever going to feel like I have energy and excitement in my body? Like I could do a cartwheel if I wanted to? (not that I did a lot of cartwheels before)